Is your deposit policy negotiable?
I typically do not make exceptions to my deposit policy for a few reasons. I have lots of admirers, and I choose to only see a few select gentlemen throughout my busy week. My deposit policy is a surefire way to demonstrate that you respect my time and that you are serious about our date. Your deposit also ensures that if there were a last-minute cancellation or emergency, my incall fee would still be covered. I wholeheartedly respect your needs for financial discretion, and I understand that electronic deposits are not always suitable if our time together needs to be as private of an event as possible. In this instance, I can be flexible so that our time together is stress-free. If this sounds like your situation, please do not hesitate to inquire by sending me an email.
Do you take wardrobe requests?
Wardrobe requests are a huge turn-on for me. I love getting dressed up for our dates knowing that my outfit is a part of your fantasy. Please let me know your request upon booking so that I can do my best to be prepared. Want me to wear something just for you? Take a look at my wishlist on Gift Hero to get ideas on how to curate an even more bespoke experience during our time together
What is your rescheduling/cancellation policy?
If your name goes on my calendar, you can consider our date set in stone on my end. It is extremely rare for me to reschedule or cancel, and I take pride in prioritizing our time together. However, life happens, and I am more than willing to honor the chaotic nature of our universe. In the event that our plans need to change, here’s my protocol:
- I am understanding of rescheduling, and I kindly ask that you give me as much notice as possible in order for me to adjust my calendar. Upon receiving your deposit, I am happy to reschedule our appointment one time, unless the incall fee is non-refundable for that particular space. In this circumstance, your deposit will be non-transferrable.
- If you reschedule with more than a 24-hour notice, I will gladly transfer your deposit to our new date (unless the specific room we booked is non-refundable).
- If you cancel after the 24-hour notice without being able to provide a new tentative calendar date, I will accept your deposit as a convenience fee to cover the cost of my incall fee. I sincerely appreciate your understanding of my needs in regard to this matter.
- If I have to reschedule or cancel for any reason, I will immediately return your deposit.
How do I prepare for our date?
It’s all about the basics, and I find common sense to be incredibly sexy. Please be showered and dressed in a way that reflects your respect and appreciation for my time and companionship. A tuxedo is never necessary, but business casual is always a nice touch. You can always take a quick shower upon arriving at my incall. If we are meeting at your home, then I kindly ask that you make sure to tidy up (this includes having fresh towels and bedding). Remember, you only have one chance to make a first impression.
What if I am late for our date?
Bay Area traffic is notorious for ruining anybody’s great day. I kindly ask that you prepare for traffic ahead of time. In the event that you are late by more than 10 minutes, your tardiness will, unfortunately, cut into our date time. If you would like to make up for lost time, I kindly ask that you extend your donation in order to ensure that I feel respected and comfortable in spite of any lateness.
What are your screening requirements?
For any girl, blind dates can be a bit nerve-racking. I have taken lengthy steps for you to know that I’m authentic and reliable, and I expect the same courtesy from my admirers. In order for us both to feel as comfortable as possible for our first date, I kindly ask that you respect my screening policy prior to our meeting. Here are the ways in which I can verify your identity, and I request that you provide me with at least one of these options:
A personal reference from at least one fellow provider who can vouch for your character and reliability.
A peek at your LinkedIn profile to confirm your profession and identity.
A link to your Private Delights or P411 profile to confirm that you are reviewed and okayed by other providers.
A photocopy of your ID if you are unable to provide me with any of the above methods of verification.
I respect your needs for personal discretion, and your privacy is the utmost priority to me. Any sensitive material requested during the screening process will never be shared with anyone.
I live about an hour or two away from the Bay Area. Will you come visit me for a date?
To offset the carbon footprint of my vintage Porsche, I also have the quintessential California Prius, and I love taking road trips when they present themselves. If you live within an hour or two of the Bay, I am happy to take an adventure to make it to our date. In order for me to feel comfortable, I ask that we plan a date that reflects the one-way drive time (for example, if you are 2 hours away from Palo Alto, I ask that we spend at least 2 hours together so that my efforts to be accommodating are respected). If our date requires longer than a two-hour road trip, then I ask for the duration of our date to be at least 3 hours. If you are more than a 3-hour drive away, then I kindly ask that you fly me to you (please refer to the details for my traveling rates here).
Can I use you as a reference?
I will gladly give you a glowing reference, but I take the responsibility of protecting my fellow muses very seriously. If I feel that I cannot vouch for your character, then I will not send a positive reference to a provider who is asking me about you. Thank you for your understanding as we all do our part to keep everyone involved safe and satisfied.
